Nobody wants to be lonely. Perhaps you have “failed” in relationships or have yet to be in one. So you believe the answer to the longing of your lonely soul is “out there”. You just need to find “her” or “him”, your ideal mate, the one that will fill your deep sense of lack with sex, companionship, total acceptance and more importantly, self-worth.
This approach assumes the cause of loneliness is outside of you. Your mind is the cause; how you see yourself in relationship to others.
ACIM says the perceiver is not separate from what he perceives. If he perceives lack, he will see himself lacking. Wholeness can only be restored to awareness through holy vision.
Holy vision is “another way of looking at the world” (Lesson 33) and therefore, of seeing ourselves. We are asked to see through the eyes of forgiveness.
Holy vision heals the separation we feel from one another. It is the final answer to why I am so lonely.
It “represents a very different view of yourself. By establishing your Source it establishes your Identity and it describes you as you must really be in truth (holy).”
Lessons 32-46 begin to undo a belief system based on separation and lack because holiness is unlimited in its power. “Through your holiness the power of God is made manifest. And there is nothing the power of God cannot do.”
All power belongs to our Creator, our mind shares in it because it is not separate from Source and will “eventually overcome completely the sense of loneliness and abandonment all the separated ones experience.”
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HOST: Eloisa Ramos, AMT Certified EFT Master, combines her study and practice of A Course in Miracle principles with her EFT work and has evolved the Ramos Clearing Technique as a tool to access and release deeply rooted beliefs, images and imprints that cloud awareness to the Divine Truth within us. She is author of Beyond Self-esteem: Discovering Your Boundless Self-worth. For questions or further information on EFT, muscle testing or to purchase a PDF download of her book , or download a free version of the Ramos Clearing Technique flowchart, visit: http://www.healing-with-eft.com/ramos-clearing.html. To schedule a private phone or Skype session with Eloisa, call 707 837-5134 or email [email protected]
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